aduhh...pg nih hati mmg le x tenang...otw nak ke opis td pun berdetak detik hati ini.. apalg kalo bkn psl maid le..nak plak last sat kantoii kan..huhuh
story : last sat..kitorng tinggal kan dlm lebih kurang 4hrs camtuh bbik & the kiddos kat rumah while kitorng menguruskan urusan ngn kontraktor..bila balik i found :
i) rumah bersepah gler...(masa nih si bbik dgn wajah yg kusam serabut kelam kabut tgh kemas)
ii) lil elda tidur terjelepuk kat kaki katil her sis (i'm so sad..sbb mmg kead tidur sgt memilukan!)
iii) serpihan diapers bercerai-cerai yg basah..bila tanya lil elda..die kata 'adik muntah' its means budak kenit nih main geget diaper then mkn le kut..sbb tuh muntah! scary kan? huhuhu
iv) bila investigate : si bibik mengaku tido sblm anak majikan tido..sbbnya sakit kepala..so jwbnya mmg dier biarkan my kids main sorang2..huhu
then bila discuss ngn DH katanya give her 2nd chance..mybe sbb baru kut..b4 this x pernah keje laa..lgpun bkn senang nak dpt ganti nowdays..;(
pagi ini : me plak yg terpaksa kejut dier bgn tido yg sememangnya jam sudah pun berdering!! hohoho maka dgn muke selamba lenggang kangkung baru nak capai penyapu...so me yg nak marah tp x marah maka siapkan kelengkapan my kids..huhuhu
nak dijadikan cita plak : today tiba2 fon rumah nih tiada nada dering,..rosak kut! damn..so hari nih me terpaksa 'TAWAKKAL'..mudah-mudahan my kiddos dilindungi..
will change the phone after i balik keje nnti....
berbaloiii kah?? dgn gaji buta yg me bg..
so what do u think?? should i change?? or just warn and give her chance?? bingung!
Babe,
ReplyDeleteI rasa, baik u ikut je apa your instict. To me, kalau dah awal2 pun dia mcm tu, maknanya mmg it's in her blood.
sbb br 1st time camtu kan, blh la kot bg 2nd chance. tp klu dah tetiap hr rmh sepah, bgn lmbt sbb pening kpala, apahal plak kan?
ReplyDeleteMemang patut tukar jer Ma.. risau ler kalo keadaan macam tu.
ReplyDeleteKalo dia datang memang niat nak kerja , dia dah tau apa patut dia buat.. tak payah tunggu kiter bagitau.
Lagi2 ler Elda yang masih tak tau apa2.. eeee... lynn plak yg risau
ni yang i risau ni.. takde ke rumah2 org yang leh jaga budak akma?
ReplyDeletei think better u sit down with her n talk with her nicely...tell her whats ur expectation n all...n listen what she needs to say n if she has any issue with the chores / family...if she has any...
ReplyDeleteat the same time u can try to boost her morale by promising lucrative gift by the end of contract / even monthly basis (kasi bende2 simple la ie kain ke)...but at the sametime try to be firm...
hope above helps :D
ms lola : i'll try my best..sbb b4 this all my maid is 'tua' so mybe approach xsama...tp tgklah camne..i'll give her 2nd chance..
ReplyDeleteelly : ye lah elly..i rasa dier cam shock kut..pk cam bleh ikut cara dier ..
diana : riso tuh tetap ade..even my prev maid dulu pun..i dun trust her! kat area umah i ade tp x sesuai le yang..sbbnya sapa nak jaga anak i smpai mlm2 buta...+ waktu pg sgt le susah nak anto my kids sbb diorg jenis bgn lambat..xkan i nak hangkut pepagi buta kan..nak2 kalo time hujan..mmg huru hara laaa...
verde : yes dear..i think u're right..its the best way to have a talk..i've done the part..tgklah camne nnti ade perubahan x...mybe ive to treat her diff like my prev one..sbb dulu my maid yg 'tua' sket..so yg nih mmg kene less & learn..
anyway thanks guys for ur info sharing..really appreciate ;p
if u ask me.....i definitely will change another maid.Risau seyyy...awal2 dah berani buat perangai lama2 kite tak tau kan.If our kiddos dah besar takpela blehla dia mengadu kat kita wat is happening at home ni ur kiddos still small kan.Anyway just ikut rasa hati ko akma.If ko rasa dia xleh get along with the kids & kerja2 rumah yg senang just let her go drpd nanti berlaku mende yg tak diingini kan.
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